Role Models
Parental support should always include positive reinforcement of both your child’s performance and of their efforts. Parents should aim to be positive role models, including the display of sportsmanship and the notion of fair play and by avoiding negativity of any kind. It is not acceptable for anyone to ridicule or chastise their child or others for making a mistake or for losing a game. Parents should encourage children to play according to the rules at all times.
Match Officials
The best referees in the world make mistakes, just like the best players. However, decisions are often down to interpretation of the laws and more often than not, it is us coaches, players and spectators that get it wrong.
It is vital we show respect towards the official and their decisions –whether we agree or not. Please remember they are volunteers providing an opportunity for youngsters to play sport and without them there would be no game.
As coaches, players and spectators, we must refrain from blaming the official and refrain from reacting negatively to decisions. In particular, questioning decisions from the touchline must be avoided.
Respect
We have a responsibility to other parents and spectators. Competition and taunting between parents is never acceptable, and no parent/spectator should ever feel embarrassed or disappointed by their team or child’s performance. Good play should always be applauded, and disappointments should always be consoled. Remember that children learn best by example and praise should be bestowed on the efforts of both teams.
Parents and Spectators have a responsibility to themselves. The joy and pride associated with watching children learn and grow through sport should be experienced to the fullest, because life-long memories are being created before your eyes.
Your children play sport for their enjoyment, which in turn fosters a feeling of self-worth/ respect. Please help them in this endeavour by focusing on your child’s efforts and personal achievements rather than purely on whether they win or lose.
